ENFP male (the touchy feely sensitive new age guy) married to a total INTJ. No make up, ever. No jewelry, and when was the ONE time I saw her in a dress? Our wedding day.
I've finally gotten used to the idea that I kiss her a lot more than she kisses me; that I say "I love you" more than twice as often as she does. It doesn't mean she doesn't love me; she just has a different way of showing it.
Yeah, we have problems like everyone else, but hey we get along pretty well.
And no, I can't change a tire. :)